I called Scott today to pass along some GREAT news! Our USCIS receipt came in the mail today! I'm praying that means we'll have our biometrics appointment letter in the mail within the next two weeks.
Scott's first question to me after I told him this letter came was, "Are we going to be traveling while I'm supposed to be in Arizona?"
Before you think he's more concerned about a work conference than our adoption, you should know that, historically, his business trip dates usually cause some major conflict or crisis. And he asked me over and over again if I thought it would be okay for him to book a work conference for the end of September, because he knows how true my previous statement is.
He left for a business trip on June 22, 2010. I suggested that he and a co-worker drive separately, because I was 33 weeks pregnant and had been having contractions for the past 11 weeks and was already on restriction. But no, they left together, heading only about 5 hours away. That night, as I was chatting on the phone with a friend, my water broke. So, Scott's co-worker started driving back toward home, while his dad started driving to meet them. It was a little hectic figuring out the plan for getting me to the hospital and getting someone to watch the kids, but he made it home with 3 days to spare before Sadie made her appearance.
None of the other trips were quite as eventful, but having to break into my home on the day he leaves isn't unheard of (that's happened twice). So it only makes sense that he's been so worried about booking this conference trip.
Of course, I still don't think there's going to be a conflict, but I'm praying that almost as soon as he's home from the conference, it'll be time to get on another plane and head to meet our two kids.
Getting our travel dates means we'll need another $4,000 to book our hotel and flights, and be able to eat on the trip. If we fill one ENVELOPE a week, we'll have the remainder of what we need for our first trip in just 10 weeks. All donations can be tax-deductible, if donated to our family's grant through Reece's Rainbow.
Will you please pray about whether God would have you sow seed into our adoption? We are getting closer each day to traveling to meet Katrin and Denny, and them being "orphans no more."
Monday, July 23, 2012
Friday, July 20, 2012
Progress!
When most of the adoption feels like you're just "twiddling your thumbs" waiting for things to happen, you take absolutely any progress as reason to celebrate!
Last week and this week have been full of progress, and each little thing makes me feel like we're a few steps closer to meeting and bringing home our kids. Last week, on July 12, our USCIS paperwork was in the mail, heading to Dallas.
On Monday, Scott and I met at the credit union to wire fees to our agency and have a stack of documents notarized. We were glad it was a slow afternoon, because we were there for 45 minutes, until 4:45 p.m. I rushed to the post office to mail 9 documents to the Secretary of the Commonwealth and one to the NC Secretary of the State, running in at 4:55 and walking out at 5:00 on. the. dot.
Yesterday, July 19 (exactly one week after mailing our USCIS paperwork), the check cleared the bank! I don't think it means anything significant, other than the papers are out of the lockbox and waiting in another box to be assigned an officer. But it's something, and it's better than being in the lockbox or lost in the mail!
Today, I checked the mail, and waiting inside was a big brown envelope with my handwriting on it... the documents I mailed in to the Commonwealth's office are already back, with shiny gold seals on them! That was fast!!! Those documents have all been scanned and emailed to our stateside agency, who will email them to our foreign agency to be translated.
They're not big steps, but they're steps, and we'll take them!
Last week and this week have been full of progress, and each little thing makes me feel like we're a few steps closer to meeting and bringing home our kids. Last week, on July 12, our USCIS paperwork was in the mail, heading to Dallas.
On Monday, Scott and I met at the credit union to wire fees to our agency and have a stack of documents notarized. We were glad it was a slow afternoon, because we were there for 45 minutes, until 4:45 p.m. I rushed to the post office to mail 9 documents to the Secretary of the Commonwealth and one to the NC Secretary of the State, running in at 4:55 and walking out at 5:00 on. the. dot.
Yesterday, July 19 (exactly one week after mailing our USCIS paperwork), the check cleared the bank! I don't think it means anything significant, other than the papers are out of the lockbox and waiting in another box to be assigned an officer. But it's something, and it's better than being in the lockbox or lost in the mail!
Today, I checked the mail, and waiting inside was a big brown envelope with my handwriting on it... the documents I mailed in to the Commonwealth's office are already back, with shiny gold seals on them! That was fast!!! Those documents have all been scanned and emailed to our stateside agency, who will email them to our foreign agency to be translated.
They're not big steps, but they're steps, and we'll take them!
Monday, July 16, 2012
A *BIG* Miscalculation!!!
You know when you reconcile your bank account and you realize there's extra money in the account because you made a simple miscalculation? And how it feels like you've just given yourself a great gift?
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Well, I didn't find extra money, but I made a BIG miscalculation in what we need now!
When I read our fee schedule, for some reason, I thought our next fees were due when we got our official referral (which means travel dates!), and our last fees were due when we came home from the first trip. I was wrong!!! Our next fees are due just as I thought, when we get our official referral, but our last fees are not due until we have a court date. That gives us a few extra months to raise the last fees!!!
The ticker on the right side of the blog shows the correct amount we need by our first trip, and we are just over $4,000 away from that goal!
(Of course, our last fees did not disappear, so we still need just shy of $19,000 to finish the adoption: $4,019 by our first trip, $9,070 by our notification of receiving a court date, and $5,830 by our pick-up trip.)
I am praising God for His perfect provision and timing, because those few extra months to fundraise are such a blessing!
Well, I didn't find extra money, but I made a BIG miscalculation in what we need now!
When I read our fee schedule, for some reason, I thought our next fees were due when we got our official referral (which means travel dates!), and our last fees were due when we came home from the first trip. I was wrong!!! Our next fees are due just as I thought, when we get our official referral, but our last fees are not due until we have a court date. That gives us a few extra months to raise the last fees!!!
The ticker on the right side of the blog shows the correct amount we need by our first trip, and we are just over $4,000 away from that goal!
(Of course, our last fees did not disappear, so we still need just shy of $19,000 to finish the adoption: $4,019 by our first trip, $9,070 by our notification of receiving a court date, and $5,830 by our pick-up trip.)
I am praising God for His perfect provision and timing, because those few extra months to fundraise are such a blessing!
Saturday, July 14, 2012
"When are you traveling?"
This is probably the #1 question I get regarding our adoption. I don't mind answering any adoption-related questions, but I really wish I could answer this one with a specific date. Of course, Scott just booked a business conference for late September, so that probably means we'll have some big adoption-related conflict!
We are now six months into this adoption, so I had to write a letter to the children's government, detailing where we are in preparing our dossier, and when we plan to submit the final copy of our dossier for approval. This is to make sure they know that we are still moving forward with the adoption. Of course, I wanted the letter to be PERFECT, so I spent about 2 hours writing and re-writing it. I heard from our stateside agency that I am awesome, so I assume that means my letter will keep everyone happy!
And I got what I consider to be great news today, even though it's going to be a little more work for me. Throughout the process, we have to get LOTS of documents notarized, then apostilled by the state. Our foreign agency has requested that we scan over each document after it's apostilled, for them to translate. Which means we'll save several weeks by not sending over the whole dossier for translation after we have USCIS approval. I'm praying this means we'll travel in October, instead of November!
All this has me very excited, though I've got one number in the back of my mind: $12,000. That's the remainder of what we need by the time we travel ($4,300 for the remainder of our first trip fees, and $7,700 due as soon as we get home). It's a big number, but my God is a BIG GOD, and I have absolute faith that the money will be there when we need it!
I don't have any big fundraisers planned right now, especially since I need to spend a good deal of time working on paperwork for the dossier. If you would, please pray for our USCIS paperwork to be assigned to an officer quickly, pray for our funding, and pray for our whole family, especially the two who are waiting for us.
We are now six months into this adoption, so I had to write a letter to the children's government, detailing where we are in preparing our dossier, and when we plan to submit the final copy of our dossier for approval. This is to make sure they know that we are still moving forward with the adoption. Of course, I wanted the letter to be PERFECT, so I spent about 2 hours writing and re-writing it. I heard from our stateside agency that I am awesome, so I assume that means my letter will keep everyone happy!
And I got what I consider to be great news today, even though it's going to be a little more work for me. Throughout the process, we have to get LOTS of documents notarized, then apostilled by the state. Our foreign agency has requested that we scan over each document after it's apostilled, for them to translate. Which means we'll save several weeks by not sending over the whole dossier for translation after we have USCIS approval. I'm praying this means we'll travel in October, instead of November!
All this has me very excited, though I've got one number in the back of my mind: $12,000. That's the remainder of what we need by the time we travel ($4,300 for the remainder of our first trip fees, and $7,700 due as soon as we get home). It's a big number, but my God is a BIG GOD, and I have absolute faith that the money will be there when we need it!
I don't have any big fundraisers planned right now, especially since I need to spend a good deal of time working on paperwork for the dossier. If you would, please pray for our USCIS paperwork to be assigned to an officer quickly, pray for our funding, and pray for our whole family, especially the two who are waiting for us.
Thursday, July 12, 2012
All the Spinning Plates!
I consider myself a very optimistic person, one who rarely complains (at least openly), because truly, my complaints would all be trivial. You know, as soon as I start the last load of laundry, one of the kids brings down a month week of dirty laundry from their hamper. Or Sadie finds a package of sunflower seeds her sister left on the counter and now my kitchen floor is covered.
But the past week has been TOUGH. I'm worn out, overextended, overwhelmed, and I'm trying to keep all these plates spinning, and eventually one is going to drop.
If I wasn't handling one issue after another with the cabins in TN, with the power outages, I was unjamming my sewing machine, trying to work on the four dolls I need to finish now. Or working on getting the kids ahead in their schoolwork so they can take time off later this year when we travel. Or worrying about the BIG fundraiser that I'm chairing, coming up in only 3 months. I'm terrified that something is going to slip through the cracks, and the pile on my desk is not helping my feeling like I'm forgetting something.
There's so much I want to do right now. I want to plan a curriculum sale to make some extra money for the adoption; I want to get donations and vendors lined up for the quarter auction that's coming up this fall; I want $12,000 to magically appear in our grant.
So, I'm not making a doll to auction this Friday. I need a week to get things under control around here, and I can't do it if I'm not willing to let at least one plate fall.
But the past week has been TOUGH. I'm worn out, overextended, overwhelmed, and I'm trying to keep all these plates spinning, and eventually one is going to drop.
| This is a very accurate representation of my week! |
If I wasn't handling one issue after another with the cabins in TN, with the power outages, I was unjamming my sewing machine, trying to work on the four dolls I need to finish now. Or working on getting the kids ahead in their schoolwork so they can take time off later this year when we travel. Or worrying about the BIG fundraiser that I'm chairing, coming up in only 3 months. I'm terrified that something is going to slip through the cracks, and the pile on my desk is not helping my feeling like I'm forgetting something.
There's so much I want to do right now. I want to plan a curriculum sale to make some extra money for the adoption; I want to get donations and vendors lined up for the quarter auction that's coming up this fall; I want $12,000 to magically appear in our grant.
So, I'm not making a doll to auction this Friday. I need a week to get things under control around here, and I can't do it if I'm not willing to let at least one plate fall.
Monday, July 9, 2012
Monday Morning Update 7.9.12
M: I heard from our placing agency that we got a response from our kiddos' country that they wanted our application done differently. Hmmm... you know that little voice that says "Go ahead and do two sets of paperwork, one worded this way, one worded that way, and have them both notarized, just in case?" No? Never heard that little voice? I did, and I listened, and I scanned and emailed over the other paperwork right away! That saved me another day of paper-chasing!
T: I called our homestudy agency to find out where in paperland our written homestudy is so I can submit everything to USCIS already!!!
W: Our family went to a cookout with several other families, including the Rogers family! If you don't know, they're leaving VERY SOON to rescue two more children from life in an institution! They're still not fully funded, so please consider donating to their grant!
R: The homestudy is done, signatures and notarizations are done, and it's IN THE MAIL!!!
F: Ivan is the newest doll up for auction, and if you can't tell, Elijah picked out the fabric! I tried something new... breaking away from the pattern! It took a little work, but Ivan is the first boy with shorts instead of overalls! Of course, I love the overalls, but they just weren't working with these fabrics. Whatcha think?
That's it for last week, I think. I'm not sure where the time is going, but it's flying right now!
T: I called our homestudy agency to find out where in paperland our written homestudy is so I can submit everything to USCIS already!!!
W: Our family went to a cookout with several other families, including the Rogers family! If you don't know, they're leaving VERY SOON to rescue two more children from life in an institution! They're still not fully funded, so please consider donating to their grant!
R: The homestudy is done, signatures and notarizations are done, and it's IN THE MAIL!!!
F: Ivan is the newest doll up for auction, and if you can't tell, Elijah picked out the fabric! I tried something new... breaking away from the pattern! It took a little work, but Ivan is the first boy with shorts instead of overalls! Of course, I love the overalls, but they just weren't working with these fabrics. Whatcha think?
That's it for last week, I think. I'm not sure where the time is going, but it's flying right now!
Monday, July 2, 2012
Monday Morning Update 7.2.12
Last week was very exciting! In case you missed all the exciting news (and because you probably don't know all the stuff that led up to the exciting news), here's a recap of last week!
M: Our foreign agency was contacted to get a fee agreement and commitment paperwork set up for adding Denny to our adoption, and we waited to hear back from them after they secured his file with his country.
T: Still waiting, and stressing over what amount we would hear back, and sending emails to the ladies at Reece's Rainbow to let them know that we were preparing to commit.
W: Our homestudy was revised by the homestudy agency, and then it was off to our placing agency!
R: We filled out commitment paperwork, and wired the first installment of Denny's foreign fees. I updated our "Priceless" page with all our new payments, and updated the ticker for what we still need by this fall, when we travel.
F: I got an email that our commitment paperwork had been submitted to Denny's country! And that afternoon, I got to make the best announcement! That Denny is going to be a Pickett!!!
I also started the next doll auction, inspired by one of my kids' favorite books, Corduroy. Little Lisa and her bear are off to a great start in the auction!
And that was our week in a nutshell! Happy Monday!!!
M: Our foreign agency was contacted to get a fee agreement and commitment paperwork set up for adding Denny to our adoption, and we waited to hear back from them after they secured his file with his country.
T: Still waiting, and stressing over what amount we would hear back, and sending emails to the ladies at Reece's Rainbow to let them know that we were preparing to commit.
W: Our homestudy was revised by the homestudy agency, and then it was off to our placing agency!
R: We filled out commitment paperwork, and wired the first installment of Denny's foreign fees. I updated our "Priceless" page with all our new payments, and updated the ticker for what we still need by this fall, when we travel.
F: I got an email that our commitment paperwork had been submitted to Denny's country! And that afternoon, I got to make the best announcement! That Denny is going to be a Pickett!!!
I also started the next doll auction, inspired by one of my kids' favorite books, Corduroy. Little Lisa and her bear are off to a great start in the auction!
And that was our week in a nutshell! Happy Monday!!!
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